I love my partner, Brett, our child, Dylan, and our dog, Jodie. We have built an amazing family together, and I treasure our outings and adventures. But sometimes when I am bogged down with the monotony of school lunches, laundry, and homework, I feel a tug on me to change my scenery and see new places with old friends. Over the past few years, I’ve gone on several girls trips between 1½ and 5 days. I’ve enjoyed local weekends away in Healdsburg (hiking, wine tasting, and yoga) and Calistoga (relaxing resort time at Indian Springs , farther-away adventures in Cape Cod and Arizona, and even international trips to El Salvador and Mexico City. These trips help me reconnect with friends, and just as important, they also remind me of the person I was before I became a partner and a mom. My girlfriends all have jobs and lives, and many of them have families. In our normal day-to-day, it can feel impossible to carve out time for even a single phone conversation, but a weekend away...
While doomscrolling on Instagram late one night, I saw something that made me pause in my tracks. My friend Guy had shared a post about Bisbee, Arizona — a city I had never heard of before — and a stairway event there called the Bisbee 1000 . The Bisbee 1000, I learned, was an urban hiking route throughout the city featuring 9 stairways and 1000+ stairs over 4.5 miles and about 700 feet of elevation. I was sold — I knew I had to go. I got my chance to visit Bisbee in mid-March 2026 with a few girlfriends. We ended up planning a short trip around Arizona, flying into Phoenix and out of Tucson with a stop in Bisbee on the way. Phoenix was a great time, and we spent 4 hours at the Musical Instrument Museum , but that’s another post for another time! But after Phoenix, we drove a little over three hours southeast to Bisbee. By the time we got there, we were about 12 miles from the Mexican border. It was dark out when we arrived, but we could already sense the allure of this old coppe...